This book is such an easy read and a good reminder for living.

Very often, our actions may not be aligned with what we say is important to us.

For example, if we thrive for harmonious living, then we need to communicate clearly and from a place of love. That is easier said than done especially with the stresses of daily living. Though that is no excuse, we have become growingly distracted, with shorter attention spans and patience for the people around us.

About the Book

• Published in 1997
• The book is based on ancient Toltec wisdom
• The Toltecs were a Nahuatl-speaking tribe who were dominant in now central Mexico from the 10th to the 12th century CE (Source: Wikipedia)

The Four Agreements

Be Impeccable with Your Word

• Speak with integrity and say only what you mean
• Avoid using words against yourself or others
• Use the power of your words in the direction of truth and love

Don’t Take Anything Personally

• Others’ actions and opinions are a projection of their own reality, not yours
• When you’re immune to others’ opinions and actions, you won’t suffer needlessly
• Taking things personally is an act of selfishness

Don’t Make Assumptions

• Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want
• Communicate clearly to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama
• Clear communication prevents the spread of “emotional poison”

Always Do Your Best

• Your “best” will vary from moment to moment
• Avoid overexertion or underperformance
• Doing your best frees you from self-judgment and regret

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Benefits from Practicing the Agreements

• Taking responsibility for one’s actions and words
• Finding personal integrity
• Improving relationships
• Increasing self-value

Book’s Influence

• Published in 1997
• Gained popularity after Oprah Winfrey’s endorsement

Sources:

https://www.oprah.com/spirit/ellen-degeneress-o-magazine-interview-with-author-don-miguel-ruiz/all

https://www.businessballs.com/self-management/the-four-agreements-don-miguel-ruiz/

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